Eye Candy Maturity


I’ve been married for sixteen years now. I think all couples can agree that after long amounts of time spent in a relationship, in the end people are not the same person they were in the beginning. Back when we were a young couple, the hubs and I loved to hit the party scene. We had our favorite go to bars and clubs that we frequented every weekend aka the Carlsbad crawl. We moved to California from a tiny farm town in Upstate NY. Upon arriving we found an infestation of hot beach bodies everywhere! It was literally like nothing we had ever seen.

Sitting shoulder to shoulder at the bar with ripped bodies and half naked girls frequently. There were definitely awkward moments when I’d see my man glancing at another female. We all go through this in a relationship both male and female. Its natural to see these perfect surgeon products and have to take an extra stare or two. However, I’d be insecure for days about that five second glance. Why was he looking at her? Should I hit the gym harder? Should I get my boobs done? What if he leaves me because I’m not as pretty as this dude magnet at the bar?? The insecurity went on and on.

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    Pin by Kayla Spencer

We broke up in our twenties. The separation was the best thing for us looking back. Hubby asked me out at age 15 in computer typing class. We were inseparable for years. He raced motocross and we traveled all over. I enjoyed being his pit crew every weekend and he loved this new city girl who had moved to the country. She brought a fresh new perspective to his chill country life. By our mid twenties things got confusing as we had spent all of our young lives together, so we separated. Luckily, the time apart enabled us to learn about ourselves, other people and to mature.

What did we learn while being single ha ha.. That once you grow up in the country there’s only so much you can tolerate with city life! Priorities and entertainment are quite different. He found that bangin hot girl at the bar with the hair, nails, flawless makeup and expensive purse was a fucking hand full! Most of these women are used to getting what they want and act like princesses. The hubs said a few of the ladies he dated were so needy and wouldn’t lift a finger to help with anything. Everything had been done for them their whole lives. We both quickly figured out what we did not want to wake up next to for the rest of our lives. We got back together with new found appreciation.

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                Pic by MemePi

Now twenty years later when we are out on the town or at the gym. The hubs and I will both point out super hotties to each other. Neither of us bat an eyelash about it. Instead of feeling insecure and jealous. Maturity has left us old perverts having fun with the situation! There are tons of gorgeous country gals but these Cali girls for sure take sexy to an astronomical level. The best part is when this old girl tells these young pretty ladies how hot they are and to enjoy their youth. I usually score a free glass of wine. Boom!

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Comments

  1. Joey Bear says:

    Life is about perspective. Its funny to see two people with the same situation in life and 1 person is happy and the other is not. Good Read!

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